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Thank you for checking out our website/blog. By journaling and updating this website we will attempt to keep friends and family up to date on what is going on inside our lives. Living with a terminal illness (ALS) and demonstrating how God is working in our lives to bring Him glory during this trial. We appreciate your gracious prayers and support during this season of our lives! We Love You All So Much!




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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Revelation Song - one of our new favorites!

We have been hearing a great new song lately sung by Kari Jobe (also Phillips Craig and Dean.) It is such a powerful song! We wanted to share it with you in this video some friends told us about. We have to warn you that there are many scenes from the Passion of the Christ movie that has some very graphic depictions of Christ's sufferings. As with any music or video, you will have to go to the top jukebox playlist and pause the music already playing before you click on the video below.
Have a blessed week! Our kids are in Traverse City camping with my brother and his family until Saturday so Eric and I are enjoying a quiet house together. We hope some of you will be able to join us tonight at Carrabba's in Grandville at 7pm for the MDA fundraiser dinner. Nationwide Carrabba's are doing this so you can go to any Carrabba's.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Skype

We are now on Skype and if anyone would like to talk to us via the video connection, shoot us an e-mail at info@ericfox.us or lorifox@sbcglobal.net and we'll make sure the computer is on.

If you don't have Skype, visit www.skype.com for more info. It's free and amazing to connect with this technology!

You can find us on Skype at:
Skype name: eric.fox.1988
Or search Eric Fox in Grandville, MI

Continuing the Fight...







No matter what in life, there are no guarantees. In God's word it does not say if you're a beliver or a follower of Christ that life will be smooth and easy. Rather, you can be assured that because we live in a broken, fallen world there will be attacks of many kinds by the enemy (Satan). Now I know that to many of you reading this, this might be a foreign concept to you... Satan. Maybe you don't even believe that there's a real place called Hell. I am reminded in God's word that they are both accurate depictions of an actual place and spirit. I think it's difficult for most of us to fathom that they are real because we don't see them and can't touch them. But I am convinced they exist.

I am in the middle of a battle that the enemy wants to control and take me out. Yesterday I heard a sermon that the pastor talked about how Satan is like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. He talked about how lions look for the weak, the sickly, even those who are not aware they are being stalked (they are complacent or over confident). I think that this is a good lesson for all of us to stay alert by staying in prayer, continuing to be in fellowship with other followers of Christ, to be in the Word, remembering on a daily basis to guard ourselves and put on the full armor of God.

This weekend a friend of mine picked Zach and I up and took us downtown to the inner city church mission where we help out a ministry caring for the homeless and anyone hurting on the streets of Grand Rapids. One thing I'm amazed at is how no two weeks are ever the same. God works in so many incredible ways. I realized after talking to about 4 or 5 people that there is no difference between me and them. They have hurts that are similiar to my hurts. They feel lonely at times, I feel lonely at times. They feel like they can't go on because of the struggles they face, and I feel the same way. There is a difference though. I have something that they need. And God reminded me of this - they need Jesus. With Christ living inside of me I have the hope and peace that only He gives. So, I decided that I need to encourage these people of this. They were very open and wanted me to pray with them.

I feel that a lot of the people I meet have all sorts of religion. They know the bible, they know scriptures, but for many of them they are misguided because they continue in their sin of alchohol abuse, drug abuse, etc. that the enemy has a stronghold over them with in those areas. They need to release those chains that have been binding them up for so long. They need to make a decision to have the living Saviour come dwell in their heart. There's more to having just head knowledge of Him and the scriptures. Christ wants a personal, intimate relationship with each one of us.

For example, when I think of my best friends, I think of what is it that has made them become my best friends... it is because we have spent time together developing that relationship. We talk, we've been though good times and bad times, we give each other advice, we bounce ideas around, we make memories together. That is what Christ wants from us - to develop and intimate relationship with Him. He does not want us to go through the motions just sayin we know "of" Him. He desires a real and intimate friendship.

On Saturday, I noticed one gal that was in line getting soup and supplies. She was not happy and very impatient. By the comments she was making, I could tell that she was having a hard time and was struggling with something. I went outside to invite more people in to the church. A little while later, she came outside and my friend C.B. and I stuck up a converation with her. There was something noticably different from the time I had first seen her in the line and now. We talked with her and encouraged her. She even let us pray with her. Later on, we gathered as a group of workers to discuss what we had seen and experienced that day. We prayed that the seeds that God planted that day would take root and we would see much fruit from the efforts. One of the workers shared that she had the priviledge and honor of leading a homeless woman in the prayer of salvation. It was the same woman that C.B. and I had spoken with. This is an example of God working through a handful of people that are faithful and obedient to His will. My prayer is that Laquita would continue to develop that intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. Please pray for her and the many others that are hurting all over.

I wanted to also say how proud I am of my son Zach. When I asked him if he wanted to go downtown, he gave me a resounding "Oh yeah!" I amazed at my son, being 12 years old, desiring to be used by God in this way. Walking the streets, talking with homeless people, encouraging them of the hope that we have in Jesus Christ. What father would not be proud of their son or daughter who had this same desire. Zach is a big help to the entire group and is learing a lot about people and circumstance in this life. He relealizes that there are no guarantees in this world we live in and that we should not take for granted all that we have by Gods' grace. We are truly blessed and Zach and I have talked about that on my occasions. Zach has seen God work in extraordinary ways the last few years, as we all have. I cannot be prouder of him than I am right now. He is such a good and wonderful kid.

This weekend we had an unexpected guest call and come over... my brother and his family. It was a wonderful visit. We had such a great time with him, Erica, Kaitlyn, and Emma. We went and saw a movie (G-Force) and the kids liked it. I fell asleep... that tells you how good it was from an adult stand point. I would recommend waiting until it comes out on video (just my personal opinion). Afterwards we grilled hamburgers and ate out and even made a bonfire cooking smores and doughboys. Unfortunately, I paid for this later on as I took in too much smoke. But I wanted to enjoy the time together with my brother and his family. So needless to say, it was a rough night of sleeping for me that night. I did a lot of coughing and was up quite a bit during the night which meant Lori didn't sleep much either. All in all, it was well worth it though.

I ran into an old friend of mine that two and a half years ago had been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease. I had not seen him since then and was amazed to see that God had healed him of his symptoms. Praise God! I was encouraged by his attitude and for his encouragement towards me. He reminded me of the verse that was instrumental in him being healed. He said that this verse is his life verse:

Matthew 17:20
And Jesus said unto them, Because of your unbelief: for verily I say unto you, If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you.


I'm reminded that our faith is a powerful tool! I trust in the Lord for my healilng during this battle of ALS. I continue to fight the good fight and press on towards the goal. Perserverence is teaching me to lean on the Lord even more each and every day. God continues to chisel away the rough edges, everything that is not of Him!

Thank you for those of you who continually pray on our behalf. May the Lord continue to bless you and keep you.

Your brother in Christ,
Eric

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Family Song

A couple weeks ago, Lori's cousins and Aunt were here visiting and we put together this song, which is now uploaded to U-tube. Hope you like it.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Reminded that God is always at work even when we stray

We wanted to share with all of you something that God has helped us come to understand this week. We have been feeling very down, lonely and even depressed over the last three weeks and that is right where Satan wanted us to be. It is so easy to become consumed with our human emotions and the way this disease continues to change our lives. We have not been seeking God's help daily through our struggles. This week, God has been speaking to us in so many ways and reminded us who He is and how much He cares for us. God has been doing this through people, through his Word, sermons, a book on tape, through answered prayers, things that are not coincidences but rather God at work in our lives.
Today, a good friend with ALS, Jana Woods, has passed away from this horrible disease. A few months back, she was in our home laughing with us. We had heard she was admitted to Hospice not long ago and had every intention to go visit her there thinking we had time, but we got caught up in our own busyness and wallowing in our self pity that we didn't listen to God and our hearts and make the time. We are not saying this to make you all think you need to come visit us this week or feel bad. We know that God lays it on peoples hearts when he knows that we need an encouraging word from them and He works through his people to show His love. We used to feel guilty for not helping everyone that was sick in our church, but realized that we are only responsible to go when He pricks our hearts or puts them on our mind. We are all called to use the gifts God has given us to further His kingdom. We are reminded about the brevity of life when someone dies and we don't know when we will take our last breath. We are reminded that it is so important to spend time with the ones we love and to share the gift of salvation that we have been given with others. Every day is a gift! We get so caught up in things that really don't matter for eternity. The enemy is so crafty in keeping us distracted with things of this world and not keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus. We are so thankful that God never leaves us, when we are feeling like we are alone, it is us that have strayed away.
We heard a sermon from John 5 recently that talked about the man who was crippled for 38 years. He was trying to figure out a way to get into the healing pool when others kept going before him and he had no way to get in. Jesus approached him asking if he wanted to be well and told him to pick up his mat and be healed. He obeyed and was healed. His life began at the point of his faith. He had work to do! We were reminded of the work that God wants us to do. At the point of our salvation, we are healed and cleansed of our sin and God commands us to sin no longer and to live for Him. We are praying for physical healing and want it so badly that we lose focus on eternity in Heaven with Jesus and our purpose while we are here on this earth. He wants us to live a life free from sin and sadness. He wants to offer us hope and a future! If we are caught up in finding a cure or wanting to be healed, it's hard to trust God as my disease progresses. We cannot live the life God has for us without Him.

We have been praying for a sports camp for Zach to attend this summer in a christian environment and God led us to Fellowship of Christian Athletes camp last Friday and we drove him to camp today! If you are able to send Zach an encouraging note while he is at camp, the instructions are below. The letter should be sent out by Tuesday or Wed since he will be coming home on Friday. We think it would really lift his spirits to receive letters this week since he doesn't know anyone there except the couple who told us about the camp that help coach. We know God will watch over him and bless him this week! Keep Zach in your prayers too!
If you are planning to send a letter to your camper,
address the letter to the individual, Fellowship of
Christian Athletes Camp, Dining and Hospitality Service,
Albion College, 611 East Porter Street, Albion, MI 49224.


Maddie is doing a Soccer camp at a Grandville church too and she packed her bag to stay overnight thinking she was going away for the week too like her big brother! Pray that God will speak to her precious heart this week.

Sorry this is so incredibly long, thanks for listening, praying and loving us!
Your brother and sister in Christ,
Eric and Lori

Carrabba's Nationwide fundraiser to aid MDA in the fight for ALS on July 30th 5pm to close


We will be there!!! This is our favorite restaurant!!! Who wants to join us at the Grandville Carabba's at 7pm for dinner? We are not promoting alcohol consumption, but you can't go wrong for 15.00 to try their new great food items knowing that it will benefit a great cause!
Hope to see you there!
Eric and Lori


On Thursday, July 30, Carrabba’s Italian Grill invites consumers to "Mix It Up for MDA" at a special event combining exclusive cocktails from award-winning mixologist Charlotte Voisey with new Carrabba’s food items to benefit the Muscular Dystrophy Association (MDA).
Admission to "Mix It Up for MDA" is $15 per person from 5 pm to close at Carrabba’s locations nationwide. The ticket price includes a sampling of four food items from the new Mr. C’s Bar Menu and, for guests 21 years and older, one of Voisey’s signature cocktails created for the event (Blackberry Lemonade, the Italian Lemon Drop or Blackberry Fields Martini) or another drink on the Mr. C’s list.
The food tasting includes a delicious array of appetizers from the new Mr. C’s Menu, designed for snacking and sharing, including: Antipasti Misto – an assortment of Italian meats and cheeses, Mediterranean olives and roasted peppers; Meatballs with Ricotta Cheese – homemade meatballs topped with pomodoro sauce, Romano and ricotta cheeses; Patatinas with Blue Cheese – freshly cooked Italian potato chips tossed with green onions and topped with a blue cheese sauce; and Chicken Parmesan Piccolinos – mini sandwiches featuring sautéed chicken breast coated with Italian breadcrumbs, topped with pomodoro sauce and melted mozzarella cheese.
In addition to monies raised from "Mix It Up for MDA" event admission, Carrabba’s also will donate $1 to MDA for each of Voisey’s drinks sold from July 30 – August 6. During that week, consumers are encouraged to visit www.Carrabbas.com and cast their vote for their favorite cocktail. The most popular drink will be added to Carrabba’s drink menu.
For more information on "Mix It Up for MDA," to vote on Voisey’s special cocktails, or to find Carrabba’s locations nationwide, visit www.carrabbas.com.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

My kind of camping

It has been a while since we have updated the blog. We have been on a bit of an emotional roller coaster since returning home from Hawaii. We have had good and bad days and are at times overwhelmed with this disease and what it is doing to our family. God has been good to us through it all and has still given us strength and peace through it all. We are looking to replace our caregiver, Lisa who has finished her schooling and is now starting her fieldwork. She has been such a huge help to all of us and we miss having her around to help out. She will do very well in her field. Please pray that we can find the right replacement for her soon. We were supposed to have our annual Kammeraad family campout this weekend in Muskegon (Eric and I were just going to go up for the day on Saturday) but my parents decided to cancel it since all of her kids were going through some tough weeks prior and we ended up having a campout in our backyard with a couple of tents and lots of us staying in the house. It was so much fun! The kids spent most of the weekend catching toads in the back yard and we all hung out together playing games, putting our speakers up out back (we love having music outside now)and preparing and eating meals together and camp fires at night. It was great having full bathrooms and a full kitchen while camping! It was great spending time with family. We will have to try this with the Fox side this summer too. My aunt and cousins came in to town Sunday from Mexico, AZ and TX and it was great to spend time with them too. We enjoyed time with them in Grand Haven on Sunday and again here at the house on Tuesday night. My dad's side of the family is very musical so Sapphire got out her guitar and we did something new, we all wrote a song together with her help. Eric said he always wanted to write a song with Zach and the night really meant a lot to him. Even in the little things, God knows the desires of our hearts and answers prayers. Eric has been praying for this for a long time and was blessed to do this with our family. We had a good week and it took our mind off of this disease and let us focus on things that are really important in life (faith, family and friends). Our elevator is finally finished today and Eric took the maiden voyage in it this morning. He went into the kids rooms and woke them up and they flipped out seeing their dad in their rooms. The elevator is so wonderful and will be such a blessing in our home. This was fully covered by the VA and we are so grateful! This weekend for the 4th of July holiday we plan on going to the parade and then having a BBQ at our house from 3-6 to promote awareness for ALSTDI and then going to the Whitecaps to support ALSA and celebrate the 70th anniversay of Lou Gehrig's farewell speech and watch the fireworks. It will be a full day! Eric's mom is coming to stay with us next week which is always such a blessing. We are looking forward to spending time with her. Have a great weekend! Thank you for lifting our family up in prayer and for those of you who have offered to bring meals and pick Eric up and take our kids. Lori and Eric

Family is FOREVER

Family is FOREVER